Things You Can Do To Make Waiting Easier
We like to have our desires and needs met at the tap of our fingers but life doesn’t work like that. Sometimes we won’t have for things; we get them as soon as we ask for them or work for them but many times in our lives, we will have to do some waiting; wait for things, wait for people. And even though waiting is a constant feature in human lives, we still don’t like to wait.
Whenever we are in a situation where we have to wait, we often find our patience tested; for many of us, the waiting period(s) bring out a lot of unflattering tendencies that we and those around us may not even be aware of.
But if we want to enjoy life, maintain relationships and keep our peace, we must learn to wait with grace and patience.
Whether it’s waiting to see the results of all our hard work, to finally find that person we can spend the rest of our lives with, or whatever else life requires us to wait for, here are some tips to help us wait us better;
This is a good way to reinforce your tenacity. Truthfully examine your expectations and desires; don’t shy away from any inconsistencies and negative possibilities. Sometimes you may realize that you are actually wasting your time and need to move on.
At other times, however, you are reassured that your dreams and expectations are valid and worth waiting for, even though no one else agrees or understands. This kind of conviction produces the strength to wait.
The ability to wait is sometimes frustrated by the starting point of unrealistic calculations and expectations. Imagine a pregnant woman, wanting to have her baby three months after expectations; this means that she either doesn’t know that pregnancy last about nine months or she’s just be silly.