3 Reasons Why Women Sexually Reject Men
Sexual intimacy and especially sexual pleasure for women is often a tricky thing. What women wish men knew about why they reject them sexuality is a complex exploration.
However, I would like to discuss three things regarding sexual intimacy and rejection, that I believe are common themes with why women sexually reject men:
1. You’re going too fast.
Women’s sexual response system responds to slower touch. A woman doesn’t want to be grabbed or groped at. Men, if you think you are touching her in a soft way, chances are you could probably touch even softer and even slower.
The main thing about slowing down is not having an agenda. Having sex with a woman is not like going for the goal post. This is not a sports event. This is another human being with a complex nervous system and sexual response system. Awakening a woman’s sexual desire is a process, not a race.
When a woman feels she has to respond in a certain way (and fast) during sexual intimacy it will shut her sexual response system down.
When you are able to slow down (and I mean really slow down), you are giving her the impression that you are not in a hurry. If she is attracted to you, she wants all the time in the world with you. She wants it to last. Slowing down will decrease your odds of being rejected.
2. It takes 72 hours to prepare a woman for sex.
A common thing I hear from women is when getting into bed or waking up, her man wants sex. He seemed to have forgotten about the unresolved argument or the stress she was under because of work.
Sexual intimacy with a woman doesn’t work that way.
If you want to increase your chances, take 3 days to prepare her. Treat her like a queen. Say nice words to her. Tell her how much you appreciate and admire her. Our sex organs are not just between our legs.
You will go a lot further in getting her to say “yes” if you give her warm fuzzies as opposed to cold or room temperature prickly.
In other words, don’t take her for granted. Don’t assume your sexual satisfaction is her “duty”. That isn’t fun for you either.
Sincere words of affirmation and appreciation go a long way in getting a woman ready to receive you. Make sure you do that 72 hours before wanting sex with her. If you want sex every day then appreciate her every day.