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7 New Year’s Resolutions You Should Make If You’re in a Long-Distance Relationship

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Being in a long-distance relationship (LDR) is tough all year round, anyone in it can tell you. It is especially difficult during the holiday season. You can’t do any of the festive things that you’d love to do with your partner, like curl up in front of a Christmas movie marathon.

Instead of letting the distance bring you down, try focusing on the little things you can do now to create the future. Focus on things that’ll have you and your partner are in the same place.

 

  1. Vary your methods of communication

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If you have been in an LDR with your partner for a while, then you’ve probably found a way of communicating that works for both of you. It could involve texting throughout the day or video chatting every weekend.

In 2017, try spicing things up a little, add apps you don’t normally use into the mix. Swap texting for a voice message over WhatsApp, or photos for a video over Snapchat. You’ll both enjoy the element of surprise that this brings to your usual routine.

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7 Things Most Women Consider As Charming In Men

7 Things Most Women Consider As Charming In Men

7 Things Most Women Consider As Charming In Men

7 Things Most Women Consider As Charming In Men

You must have definitely heard a lady say ‘wow, that man is charming’. What really triggers a woman to see a man as charming?

1. SOCIABILITY

A man that can hold his own with a conversation is seen as charming by most women. If you know the right things to say and know how to pull off a good conversation, whether you are with just one person or a large group of people, then the ladies would find that charming. Women love men who are sociable without even forcing it.

2. A GOOD SENSE OF HUMOUR

A good sense of humour doesn’t just end at making people laugh, but also doing it without making a fool of yourself. If you can effortlessly make people laugh with a certain charisma, then most women would consider you to be charming.

3. TASTE

Good taste in shoes, cloths, wine, wrist watches and almost everything in general would endear the ladies to you. Men with good taste in wines and cloths are mostly seen as charming.

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How to Make an Older Woman Fall in Love with You

How to Make an Older Woman Fall in Love with You

How to Make an Older Woman Fall in Love with You

How to Make an Older Woman Fall in Love with You

 

All younger guys, at some point, fantasize about having a relationship with an older woman. But how exactly do you bring the cougar to your door?

The Graduate, S*x and the City, Cougar Town, Desperate Housewives–all popular movies and TV shows principally revolving around the subject of older women dating younger men.
This phenomenon has an almost ubiquitous presence in modern media, and, despite the whole issue of chickens and eggs and which came first, the same phenomenon seems to have spilled out onto the streets of reality. So much so that it’s not only acceptable for a younger guy to date an older woman now; it’s actually quite desirable.

Ever the twain shall meet!
It doesn’t come solely down to popular media as to why this particular human pairing occurs so commonly. There are some fairly solid reasons as to why the older woman and younger man make such a good match.
S*x*al and physiological factors are prime reasons. With men hitting their s*x*al peaks between the ages of 18 and 21, and women somewhere around their mid to late thirties, the conclusions to be drawn from this particular set of realities are obvious.
However, the free and more willing of the older women out there are vastly outnumbered by the quantity of young studs vying for their attention, giving them the pick of the litter. How can you compete against such overwhelming numbers? Read on for a few vital tips on the age-old art of seducing and securing the attentions of a cougar.

1. Dress To Impress: The average older woman has been around the block a few times. She’s seen more than you have, heard more than you have, and experienced more than you have. That also means that she’s experienced a much wider range of social situations than you, and she knows how to dress for each and every one of them. Moreover, she feels entirely comfortable doing so. It is paramount, then, that you get the dress code right whenever you are in her presence. Making the mistake of wearing a t-shirt to a smart, casual event or a tuxedo to one that requires full morning suit attire is likely to leave her feeling distinctly underwhelmed.
Even worse, if a romantic connection has already been established, you could leave her feeling embarrassed in front of her peers–an end result that can, at best, lead to a frosty goodbye and a subsequent dismissal of your existence. Do your research, and try your best to be the man she knows she deserves.

2. Stick Your Chin Out: You’re a young guy, and that’s a major part of the attraction for older women. They like who you are–all that freshness and youthful spirit–and don’t want you to pretend to be anything else. Irrespective of age, there are certain traits that women need to see in the male objects of their affections. You could be 18 or 80, but she still wants you to be a man–a confident alpha male with a keen eye and robust set of opinions.
Being a wallflower is not the way to a woman’s heart, and youthful indecision is more likely to turn her off than on. Be strong and show her that, despite your tender years, you know your own mind and are more than willing to share it.

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Marriage: 10 Guys You Shouldn’t Marry [RUN]

Marriage: 10 Guys You Shouldn’t Marry [RUN]

Marriage: 10 Guys You Shouldn’t Marry [RUN]

Every little girl looks forward to her wedding day. They can’t wait to meet the Prince Charming who will sweep them off their feet. But, as you grow older, you realize that nobody’s perfect. Your dreams of marrying Prince Charming become dashed away as quickly as the movie ended. So instead of looking for Mr. Perfect, you look for the one who his perfect for you.

As you look for Mr. Right, you try to look past some of bad traits so you can see all the good ones. InformationNG shares the 10 type of guys ladies should never marry, read below;

1. The commitment-phobe

Finally locked down the guy every girl’s been chasing? Well, I got news for you. Just because he finally decided to knuckle down and commit, doesn’t mean he’s committed. If he used to be a commitment-phobe, he may still be and you’ll always wonder how invested in the relationship he really is.

2. The rebel

A lot of women are attracted to the bad boy. There’s just something mysterious and romantic about him. But a lot of times the rebel in society is a rebel in marriage. And pretty soon you’ll find him rebelling against you, too.

3. The narcissist

Narcissus was an ancient Greek mythological figure who was so beautiful that he fell in love with himself — but because he couldn’t leave his own reflection in the water, he eventually drowned. A person who is a narcissist is so convinced of their own greatness that they don’t see their weaknesses. Marrying a narcissist is a very one sided relationship. They’re always trying to vaunt their own greatness — often at the expense of others.

4. The control freak

Everybody likes to have things their own way. Unfortunately, because men are socialized to express hostility and anger when they don’t get what they want, a man who is a control freak can often become intimidating and even abusive (physically or mentally).

5. The I-know-more-than-you

It’s a good thing to marry a person for his brains. But be careful because you might end up marrying a know-it-all. And you’ll always feel like you’re wrong — even if it’s just an opinion.

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6 Things Men Want In a Relationship

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6 Things Men Want In a Relationship

16 signs that tells when a guy loves you 6 Things Men Want In a Relationship

Here are seven things men want in a relationship.

1. Praise And Approval

Men have egos. They need frequent reassurance about themselves, career paths, efficacy as partners and their attractiveness.
So ladies, let your praise loose. Tell your man exactly what you find attractive about him. Let him know what physical features of his are your favourites. Tell him how attractive you find it when he says something a certain way, when he accomplishes something, or when he takes you on a date. Your praise won’t make him cocky; it will help him feel loved.

2. Respect

Men feel respect as love. If he feels like you disapprove of him, his career, or the things that he believes to be integral to who he is as a person, he will have a hard time trusting and loving you.

3. Emotional Intimacy

From a very young age, men are taught to avoid appearing weak at all costs. Perceived “weakness” includes things like complaining, divulging fears or concerns, and expressing self-doubt or worry. If you dont take your man in your arms when he cries, he would be repulsive and not love you

 

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Relationships: How To Rekindle Love

Relationships: How To Rekindle Love

How to rekindle love in your relationship

It was Sade who sang “Never as good as the first time” right? That seems to be largely true for a lot of things in life, including romantic relationships. But who says that’s the way the way that it should be.

Why does all the excitement, attractiveness, attentiveness and love have to die just because we finally got what we wanted. The reason why we got what we wanted in the first place was because we put in our best effort. So why not keep putting our best effort every day so that what we wanted can stay what we want?

It is human nature to get complacent and take for granted those things we spent sweat and blood to get, once we get it including our relationships. But it’s not impossible to reignite the love and appreciation that we once had whether its in marriage or romantic relationships in general.

Here’s are some tips to rediscovering and re-igniting the spark;

Rewind

Relationships can be re-invigorated and passions reignited when partners make a conscious effort to to regularly remember their love journey. Reminiscing on the feelings, thoughts  and experiences they once shared help them to re-experience them and spur them on to create new ones.

Recalling the first times when everything was so perfect and no one could do wrong in each other’s eyes helps to rejig a relationship. Re-living the sweetness of love makes love to come alive again.

Be and Stay Courteous

Harsh words and bad behaviour are some of things that kill love in a relationship. In order to keep a relationship alive and re-invent it from time to time, couples must maintain an emotional awareness that helps them to manage their emotions, exercise self-control and maintain their manners towards each other.

Respectful communication goes a long way in keeping that loving and favourable perspective about each other in an relationship and re-tune the atmosphere. Where this has gone south, a resolve from the couple to go back to their courteous and considerate ways can work wonders even where people thought they were done with the relationship. It is worth the effort.

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6 Online Dating Tips for Guys Who Are Really Interested in Getting a Date

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Regardless of how you look at it, online dating is can be quite intimidating. With an irresistible number of digital dating platforms and an infinite stream of potential dates, how will you ever stand out?

Ryan Jakovljevic, an award-winning relationship expert and couple’s therapist, gives the do’s and don’ts of online dating – perfect for the average straight man.

  1. Know what you’re looking for

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According to Jakovljevic, you should be aware of what type of relationship you’re after before even dabbling into online dating. Know whether you are interested in casual hook-up, or a serious relationship. Pick one and create your profile bearing in mind the choice you made.

  1. Put yourself in the shoes of a potential match

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So as to take your online dating game to the next stage, consider placing yourself in your prospective partner’s shoes. For example, Jakovljevic suggests creating a female profile for a day and observing how men talk to you. This will allow you gain a level of insight into a woman’s perspective.

  1. Show, don’t tell

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According to Jakovljevic, the major mistake most guys make is writing about their traits rather than demonstrating it. There’s a real distinction between saying “I’m a funny guy,” and sharing a hilarious story on your profile.

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7 Reasons He Might Be Feeling Insecure About Your Relationship

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Guys can get insecure about all kinds of things in a relationship. However, his insecurities aren’t necessarily your fault, but if both of you choose to be honest about them, you will figure out ways to move past them unruffled. These are some reasons he might be feeling insecure.

He doesn’t think you make enough time for him

There isn’t anything wrong with you wanting your space. But if he wants to spend more time with you and you’re confused about how much time you should be investing in a relationship, then ask yourself this question; “In the period I spend not seeing my boyfriend, could I hypothetically be spending time with a secret family that I have across the state?”

If your answer is positive, then you can probably spare a few more days a month.

  1. He caught you talking to another guy and you got really shady about it

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There is really nothing wrong with having guy friends, or replying a coworker’s text. However, there is a lot wrong with freaking out, covering your phone, screaming, and then smashing it against the wall when your boyfriend peeks over your shoulder. That’s crazy suspicious, and you wouldn’t do that unless you had something to hide

  1. He’s never been to your apartment. Or met any of your friends

Sharing intimate things with him increases the trust he has in you. If he has never met any of your friends, this might lead to insecurity.

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